Trust. It’s a good word. We think of “trust
falls”, in which someone closes their eyes and falls backwards, trusting the
rest of the team to catch them. We think of living with difficult decisions,
made possible because we trust the people who made the decision. There are also
times and situations in which trust has been broken and lost. Illustrations
from life abound. Trust is basic to life, and lack of trust makes life hard to
live.
But what happens when trust is broken? How can
we learn to trust again once someone has betrayed our trust? If we have failed
someone else, how can we rebuild trust so that they can trust us again?
The questions become more difficult when the
church and our faith as followers of Jesus are involved. Some people find it
hard to trust God because they have been hurt by someone in the church.
Difficult life situations can leave us feeling as though we cannot trust
anyone, even God. God has done all that can be done to heal our broken trust:
God sent Jesus, God’s Son, who died on the cross in our place. What more could
God do to demonstrate God’s love? However, the question remains, how can we
learn to trust God again? How can we learn to trust other people again?
These questions are in my mind as we reflect on
the Scripture passages this morning and ask what God is saying to us through
our reading of “God’s Word Written”.
Psalm 32
This is called “a psalm of David”. So many of
David’s psalms refer to this kind of experience: “While I kept silence, my body
wasted away through my groaning all day long. For day and night your hand was
heavy upon me; my strength was dried up as by the heat of summer.” We don’t
know the specific situation – whether it was while he was on the run from King
Saul and feeling as though he would never escape, or whether it was one of his
family problems after he became king. Whatever the situation was, David felt
that he could not trust anyone; his problems were overwhelming, and he cried
out to God for help.
David assumed that his troubles were his own
fault, so he confessed his faults to God and asked God for help. He described
the result this way: “Therefore let all who are faithful offer prayer to you; at
a time of distress, the rush of mighty waters shall not reach them. You are a
hiding place for me; you preserve me from trouble; you surround me with glad
cries of deliverance.”
This may be our experience also. When we get
into trouble so that others no longer trust us, we can confess our fault. God
forgives us and restores us, and in time our friends and acquaintances may also
realize that we are now worth trusting. But what happens when the situation is
not our fault? What then? Consider the story from Mark 1, a brief passage about
the healing of someone with a debilitating skin disease.
Mark 1
Our translations normally refer to the healing
of a leper, so I observe briefly concerning the disease itself. Leprosy today
is a skin disease that did not exist in the Near East during the time of the
Old Testament. The “leper” in our story would have had some kind of skin
condition, ranging from a case of what we might call eczema to something really
disfiguring. The basic problem came when the sore was oozing and the liquid was
held to be contagious and unclean.
Modern leprosy is mildly contagious and (among
other things) can destroy the nerve endings in limbs. Until recently there was
no good treatment for it, and people could lose fingers or toes to fire because
they had no feeling in them. Lepers used to be treated in isolation wards, but
today someone with the modern disease can live an almost normal life.
Leprosy in the OT – the variety of skin
conditions covered by the Levitical Law – was not necessarily physically
debilitating, but it made the person with the skin problem ritually unclean.
Since an oozing sore could contaminate others in the community, they had to
remain separated from everyone else – a little bit like people today who must
spend two weeks in quarantine when they return from a cross-border trip. The
community would care for the afflicted person, but the afflicted one could not
come into the synagogue and worship with the rest of the community until they
were again “clean”.
We do not normally think in these categories:
Ritually clean and ritually unclean. It’s hard for us to wrap our minds around
them. Truth to tell, we do use them, although we don't use the language and may not understand them. When we shame people for views that don't fit our narrative, or when we engage in cancel culture, we are using this way of thinking, in which the person we shame becomes unclean and must be avoided lest they contaminate us with their uncleanness.
We also meet these categories in Canada today through other religions and cultures. I teach World Religions at
Providence, and I take students in my class to visit various places of worship
in Winnipeg. When we go to Shaarey Zedek in Winnipeg, a conservative synagogue
across the river from the legislature, I see a sign that “holy objects” such as
the special clothes one wears to Sabbath prayers (a yarmulke or prayer shawl,
for example) should not be taken into the washroom. Although they would not
become physically unclean, they would be in some sense spiritually
contaminated.
Similarly, when we visit the mosque in
Winnipeg, we remove our shoes before we enter the prayer hall – a matter of
ritual “cleanness”. Muslims today observe these categories carefully. I heard
of one Muslim family in which they held that men should not touch women before
going into prayers, so – in order to annoy her brother – a young girl in the
family would touch him just before he went into prayers. Then he had to go and
do a ritual washing to be “clean” again.
Most of us don’t use the language of clean and unclean, but the people
in Jesus’ day saw life this way. People with this skin condition were “unclean”
and contact with them made others unclean. Such people normally lived outside
the village and avoided contact with people until the condition was healed or
went away. We can overstate their exclusion – their families cared for them and
loved them; but to be called “leper” was a bad thing. The passage begins, “A
leper came to him, begging him …”: These are the words of someone who has
become desperate because of his affliction.
Observe the sequence that follows.
1) The leper says, “If you want to, you can heal me.” 2) Before
he answered at all, Jesus reached out and touched him. 3) Jesus says, “Of
course I want to. Be healed (clean).” 4) Immediately the sufferer is healed. 5)
Jesus gives him two instructions:
- Don’t tell anyone what happened. (Right! How can he possibly avoid telling what happened? We call this “the Messianic secret”. Jesus knew that people were looking for a miracle-worker as the Messiah, and he kept quiet about his identity so that he could teach his disciples more about the Messiah as a suffering servant.)
- Go to the priests so that they can verify your healing and you can rejoin the community. Jesus heals him physically and spiritually and communally.
6) The healed man started to tell his story over and over,
and Jesus retreated into seclusion to continue his ministry with his disciples.
Application
Come back to our question: How do we rebuild
trust/learn to trust again once trust has been broken? What does this encounter
between Jesus and the “leper” teach us?
When the problem lies between us and God, the
Psalm tells us to bring our brokenness to God. In God there is healing and new
life. The story in Mark 1 tells us how a broken person learns to trust again.
The sufferer calls out to Jesus for help. That is one basic step required to
rebuild trust: Admit the problem. Name the brokenness. Ask for help.
In the gospel reading, the broken man asked
Jesus, the Messiah, for help. Our opening hymn this morning contains the words,
“We are each other’s bread and wine.” That is, we are the Body of Christ to
each other. Some churches have a confessional booth where the broken person can
confess to a priest, who then acts and speaks on behalf of Jesus. In
Anabaptism, we act on behalf of Jesus for each other. The “priesthood of all
believers” means that any one of us can act as a priest for any other.
Sometimes people think that it means we are a priest for ourselves and that we
approach God directly without any human help. We do indeed have direct access
to God: It is a wonderful gift. But more importantly, we can confess our
brokenness to each other, and our brothers and sisters mediate the presence of
Christ to us.
The first step, then, is that the broken person
admits their brokenness. That admission –
calling out as the leper in Mark did – leads to an equally important response.
Note what Jesus did. Even before he spoke words of healing, “Jesus stretched
out his hand and touched him.”
Separated by a pandemic that has tortured
“huggers” by forcing them to stay six feet away from people, some of us are
hungering for a hug. I think this leper was like that. For months, perhaps for
years, no one would touch him, because touching him would make them also
ritually unclean. Jesus ignored such fears and reached out and touched him.
This simple act of acceptance spoke more than any words could have. The leper
says, “If you want to, you can heal me.” Can you hear the anticipation of
rejection in his voice? “No one wants to help me. I am an outcast! I am
worthless!” Jesus’ first action is to remind him, “I love you. I care for you.
You are valuable!”
The second step, then, is to respond to the
broken person with simple acceptance, with a simple
demonstration of that person’s value – whether it is through a handshake, a
hug, a high five, or any other action that communicates clearly, “You are
valuable, and I care about you.”
This communication comes from each of us as
individuals and from all of us as a community. Another of our favourite hymns
says it clearly:
Heart with loving heart united, met to know God’s holy will./
Let his love in us ignited more and more our spirits fill./ He the Head, we are
his members; we reflect the light he is./ He the Master, we disciples, he is
ours and we are his.
May we all so love each other and all selfish claims deny,/ so
that each one for the other will not hesitate to die./ Even so our Lord has
loved us; for our lives he gave his life./ Still he grieves and still he
suffers, for our selfishness and strife.
Since, O Lord, you have demanded that our lives your love
should show/ so we wait to be commanded forth into your world to go./ Kindle in
us love’s compassion so that everyone may see/ in our fellowship the promise of
a new humanity.
We reach out in love and acceptance
individually and corporately, because the truth is that we are all broken people,
and we all need to learn to trust again.
Step One: Admit our
brokenness. Step Two: Accept the broken one openly and fully. Then there
is a third step. Rebuilding trust is a lifelong process, and it is frankly
impossible without divine intervention. Jesus touched the broken man, and then
he did more. He healed him. Healing and saving were not two different things in
Jewish thinking. By saying “Be clean,” Jesus was saying also, “Be whole.” That
is one reason he sent him to the priests to be pronounced clean: That
pronouncement meant also that he could worship with God’s people in the
synagogue. He was restored to right relationship with God and with his
community.
Step Three, then, is to embrace this lifelong process of
building trust within our community. Trust-building is a hard and time-consuming process, but
when it is done right the effects are remarkable. In an essay titled “Sesame
and Lilies”, John Ruskin wrote the following:
During the [riots] of 1848, all the houses in Paris were
being searched for firearms by the mob. The one I was living in contained
none, as the master of the house repeatedly assured the furious and incredulous
Republicans. They were going to lay violent hands on him when his wife, an
English lady, hearing the loud discussion, came bravely forward and assured
them that no arms were concealed. “You are English, we believe you; the
English always tell the truth,” was the immediate answer, and the rioters quietly
left.
The English people no longer have this
reputation, but in the 1800s this was indeed how they were known. This took
place at the height of the influence of the English Evangelical movement and is
a remarkable testimony. When rioters leave quietly because they trust the
speaker, you can see how powerful trust is. Equally, when we break trust, it
takes time to rebuild it. We work at this as individuals and as community, and
as we work God does the miracle of making us clean.
The broken and healed man couldn’t keep quiet
about what had happened to him. That’s another sermon, but you can see it
coming: God’s action in and through us is the source of our witness to the
world. God’s healing is a spark of divine fire that warms up the whole world
around us.
28 June
2020
Steinbach
Mennonite Church
Texts:
Psalm 32: 1-7
The Joy of Forgiveness
Of David. A Maskil.
1Happy are those whose
transgression is forgiven, whose sin is covered. 2Happy are those to whom the Lord imputes no iniquity, and
in whose spirit there is no deceit.
3While I kept silence,
my body wasted away through my groaning all day long. 4For day and night your hand was heavy upon me; my
strength was dried up as by the heat of summer. Selah
5Then I acknowledged my
sin to you, and I did not hide my iniquity; I said, “I will confess my
transgressions to the Lord,” and you forgave the guilt of my sin. Selah
6Therefore let all who
are faithful offer prayer to you; at a time of distress, the rush of mighty
waters shall not reach them. 7You
are a hiding place for me; you preserve me from trouble; you surround me with
glad cries of deliverance. Selah
Mark 1: 40-45
Jesus Cleanses a Leper
40 A leper came to
him begging him, and kneeling he said to him, “If you choose, you can make
me clean.” 41 Moved with
pity, Jesus stretched out his hand and touched him, and said to him,
“I do choose. Be made clean!” 42 Immediately the
leprosy left him, and he was made clean. 43 After
sternly warning him he sent him away at once, 44 saying
to him, “See that you say nothing to anyone; but go, show yourself to the
priest, and offer for your cleansing what Moses commanded, as a testimony to
them.” 45 But he went out and began to proclaim it
freely, and to spread the word, so that Jesus could no longer go into a
town openly, but stayed out in the country; and people came to him from every
quarter.
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